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The Case of the Digital Ghost

The Dilemma:   He’s viewing all my stories within minutes of me posting them, but he hasn't replied to my text in two days. Why is he present in my "views" but absent in my inbox? Am I overthinking this? The Response: Oh, sweetie. I hear you, and I want to start by saying: your frustration is completely valid. Welcome to "Digital Purgatory," population: you and everyone else who has ever tried to find logic in a thumb-scroller's brain. There is a specific kind of "modern anxi

The Ghost in the Notifications

The Dilemma:  "My ex’s mom still likes all my photos... and it’s weird. Am I being dramatic, or is this a boundary issue?" The Abby Preview:  You aren't being dramatic; you’re being prevented from moving on. It’s time to realize that "Brenda" is a bridge to a land you no longer inhabit. The Response: Oh, the "Ex-In-Law" haunting. It’s like a digital hug from a woman who used to feed you, but now it just feels like being watched by a very sweet, very misplaced private investig

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